My husband experienced me crying for the first time last night. Why and wherefore are immaterial (it wasn’t his fault) – it was the first time he’d ever seen me cry. He still hasn’t really, because it was dark, but the concept stands.
I actually walked a logic path in my mind, “I think I’m about to cry. Joshua hasn’t seen me cry yet. Should I let myself cry right now? Is this an ok time and reason to break that trend?”
I guess it was.